Having this whole night all to myself, I had time to think, which led to thoughts about my future. Specifically, I started to think about my ideal guy... So here's what I came up with.
- He'll be all right spending a whole Sunday morning and afternoon just lying on the couch with me, while the sun warms our cheeks.
- He'll notice me crying when a movie gets really dramatic and/or romantic, but he won't tease me for it. Instead, he'd unwittingly pull me closer to him.
- When I try to grab hold of his hand in public, he won't pull away; he'll look at me, smile, and grab hold of mine.
- He might think that the things I say or do are kind of weird, but he'll laugh along with me anyways and realize that only those special to me can get close enough to see my quirks.
- He'll surprise me by remembering the things I say when I don't think he's listening (e.g., what I'm afraid of, my favorite movie, my favorite colors, my favorite places to go, the secrets I share with him.)
- He'll snuggle up right behind me, put his arm around me, and pull me close to him before we both doze off to sleep.
- He will sometimes call or text me just to tell me he was thinking of me just a few seconds before he called/texted.
- When we can't be together, he would make sure that we both have at least a few minutes to talk every night before we head off to sleep.
- He wouldn't mind letting me sleep in the passenger seat during long drives with him.
- He would trust me driving his car while he sleeps in the passenger seat.
- He'd be happy to take late summer afternoon walks with me while he puts his arm around my waist and hold me close to him.
- He'd be happy to take lots of pictures with me and wouldn't mind me taking lots of pictures of him to remember our special moments together.
- When I'm feeling down and upset, he'd be there to hold me close and tight, no questions asked, to let me know that I'm safe in his arms.
- He'll challenge me as a person, but never make me feel inferior.
- When we're mad at each other and saying things we don't mean, he'd lean in and kiss me to make me shut up.
- He would want to introduce me to all his friends and he would be proud to call me his.
- He wouldn't be afraid or too embarrassed to tell me he loves me whenever it crosses his mind.
- He'll be all right spending a whole Sunday morning and afternoon just lying on the couch with me, while the sun warms our cheeks.
- He'll notice me crying when a movie gets really dramatic and/or romantic, but he won't tease me for it. Instead, he'd unwittingly pull me closer to him.
- When I try to grab hold of his hand in public, he won't pull away; he'll look at me, smile, and grab hold of mine.
- He might think that the things I say or do are kind of weird, but he'll laugh along with me anyways and realize that only those special to me can get close enough to see my quirks.
- He'll surprise me by remembering the things I say when I don't think he's listening (e.g., what I'm afraid of, my favorite movie, my favorite colors, my favorite places to go, the secrets I share with him.)
- He'll snuggle up right behind me, put his arm around me, and pull me close to him before we both doze off to sleep.
- He will sometimes call or text me just to tell me he was thinking of me just a few seconds before he called/texted.
- When we can't be together, he would make sure that we both have at least a few minutes to talk every night before we head off to sleep.
- He wouldn't mind letting me sleep in the passenger seat during long drives with him.
- He would trust me driving his car while he sleeps in the passenger seat.
- He'd be happy to take late summer afternoon walks with me while he puts his arm around my waist and hold me close to him.
- He'd be happy to take lots of pictures with me and wouldn't mind me taking lots of pictures of him to remember our special moments together.
- When I'm feeling down and upset, he'd be there to hold me close and tight, no questions asked, to let me know that I'm safe in his arms.
- He'll challenge me as a person, but never make me feel inferior.
- When we're mad at each other and saying things we don't mean, he'd lean in and kiss me to make me shut up.
- He would want to introduce me to all his friends and he would be proud to call me his.
- He wouldn't be afraid or too embarrassed to tell me he loves me whenever it crosses his mind.
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ReplyDeleteI think that is a pretty good description of someone who loves you. I think what I want most in a partner is consideration; someone who wants an equal partnership and admits we all have flaws. bfn - Wayne :)
ReplyDeleteThis was beautiful, I was going to do a post similar to this but you wrote it much better! In a way it seems like I know exactly how your feeling. Great post!
ReplyDeleteAwww, so sweet, Kenny.
ReplyDeleteOn your list was:
- He wouldn't mind letting me sleep in the passenger seat during long drives with him.
- He would trust me driving his car while he sleeps in the passenger seat.
This is perfectly fine as long as you're both NOT sleeping at the same time!
LOL
-Dean